fix traceback of extdiff after a merge - files that comes from a different branch are marked as modified but aren't present in the original manifest - add a testcase for extdiff and for regular diff

#!/bin/sh

unset HGUSER
EMAIL="My Name <myname@example.com>"
export EMAIL

hg init test
cd test
touch asdf
hg add asdf
hg commit -d '1000000 0' -m commit-1
hg tip