fix traceback of extdiff after a merge - files that comes from a different branch are marked as modified but aren't present in the original manifest - add a testcase for extdiff and for regular diff

#!/bin/sh

hg init
python -c 'print "confuse str.splitlines\nembedded\rnewline"' > a
hg ci -Ama -d '1 0'
echo clean diff >> a
hg ci -mb -d '2 0'
hg diff -r0 -r1