fix traceback of extdiff after a merge - files that comes from a different branch are marked as modified but aren't present in the original manifest - add a testcase for extdiff and for regular diff

#!/bin/sh

hg init
mkfifo p

hg serve --stdio < p &
P=$!
(echo lock; echo addchangegroup; sleep 5) > p &
Q=$!
sleep 3
kill -HUP $P
wait
ls .hg