fix traceback of extdiff after a merge - files that comes from a different branch are marked as modified but aren't present in the original manifest - add a testcase for extdiff and for regular diff

#!/bin/sh

echo "[extensions]" >> $HGRCPATH
echo "mq=" >> $HGRCPATH

hg init a
cd a

echo 'base' > base
hg ci -Ambase -d '1 0'

hg qnew -mmqbase mqbase

hg qsave
hg qrestore 2