various doc fixes
- update can no longer be used to merge
- short summary start with lowercase
- add merge to short help list
- fix tests
% init
% commit
adding base
% qnew mqbase
% qrefresh
% qdiff
diff -r 67e992f2c4f3 base
--- a/base
+++ b/base
@@ -1,1 +1,1 @@ base
-base
+patched
% qdiff dirname
diff -r 67e992f2c4f3 base
--- a/base
+++ b/base
@@ -1,1 +1,1 @@ base
-base
+patched