add merge command. means same thing as "update -m".
repo.addchangegroup method now returns number of heads modified and added,
so command line can tell whether update or merge needed. this makes
tiny change to ssh wire protocol, but change is backwards compatible.
pull command now returns 0 if no changes to pull.
%% no merges expected
%% merge should fail
abort: 'b' already exists in the working dir and differs from remote
%% merge of b expected
merging for b
merging b
%%
Contents of b should be "this is file b1"
This is file b1
%% merge fails
abort: outstanding uncommitted changes
%% merge expected!
merging for b
merging b
%% merge of b should fail
abort: outstanding uncommitted changes
%% merge of b expected
merging for b
merging b