util._matcher: speed up regexp matching. In 4babaa52badf, Benoit made a change that substantially slows matching when a big .hgignore file is in play, because it calls into the regexp matching engine potentially hundreds of times per file to be matched. I've partly rolled back his change, so that we only call into the matcher once per file, but preserved the ability to report a meaningful error message if there's a syntax error in the regexp.

adding he
llo
abort: '\n' and '\r' disallowed in filenames
adding he
llo
abort: '\n' and '\r' disallowed in filenames
adding hell
o
abort: '\n' and '\r' disallowed in filenames
adding hell
o
abort: '\n' and '\r' disallowed in filenames
f  he
llo  he
llo
f  hell
o  hell
o